Divorce pre trial

Well the judge didn't like that Randy didn't show up in court.
He is so ordered to get the car payments up to date. and pay it off...I get it in the divorce.
He is also ordered to pay the spousal support, and the medical bills.

 Now, I would have thought that Randy would have taken court seriously.
But he didn't. I cannot wait that my name will be returned to HALE.
I'm moving on with my life. FINALLY!
Thank you for not showing up Randy. You really gave me a great christmas gift!
Happy Holidays!
Your EX WIFE...
Oh and miss jennifer...as i see it your daughter with my now husband is my step daughter...b/c i'm married to him...my friends loved the fact that you rub it in that u had my husbands baby....but since i'm married to him thats my step daughter legally.

Fun times with friends

Jason Putting up our tree...It was comical to watch! I'll post a pic of the tree finished soon.

Last night we had friends over. We had a good time playing cranium. Bonnie and I kicked the boys' ass!

Here are some pics from last night

Bonnie my best friend! shes more like my sister!

The Crew...Jason, Tasha, Bonnie, Brandon, and Ray

Ray...he was drinking

Bonnie after we kicked some ass!

Brandon...He hates his pic taken

Bonnie and her man Ray

Bonnie and her other man Edward LOL

So now onto the blog you've all been waiting for...

I learned who my friends are. We went out to get our mail today and our xmas card was opened up. and the person who did it left a beer bottle in the mailbox...and i know who was drinking a bottle of budlight. So needless to say I do not think that person will be invited back here anytime soon. PLUS, they thought it would be funny to take my 6ft cardboard Edward and put him outside...so since the disrespected me i kicked them all out...it was about 3:30am so it was time for the party to be over anyways. I felt like a bitch tho. But i have house rules and if people don't follow them then they  are not welcome in my home.

Jason brought me home blue and white flowers yesterday...and he spelled out i love you with candles...how sweet right? heres the flowers...he got them b/c he knew they were my favorite color.

For some reason it won't rotate...

List challenge...

Sorry I haven't updated in like a day! lol seems so long hasn't it?
i'm doing two list challenges tonight

1.      Ways you calm yourself down when you’re angry

  -listen to music

  -Write

  -Talk to my best friend

  -Talk to Jason

  -take a walk

  -Take a drive

  -think of the things i'm grateful for

  -think of what i have that others don't 

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 Things you still want to do in life

- Have children

-Get married to the greatest man on earth

  Buy a home 

  Start my own business 

  Have a successful business

  buy my dream vehicle

  Start a blog about whats really going on in my life....with no editing....i edit b/c i have to

  Do a project 365 with photos

  Take a photo of myself everyday for a year

  Change my circumstances.

  Better myself. in different ways 

  I love myself but i would like to lose weight for my wedding

  make sure my friends and family know what they really mean to me.

 ....i'm sure theres more but i'm going to go cook dinner and get ready for someone to come home.

Things I'm grateful for...

Sorry i haven't wrote in a day i had friends over and we stayed up until 4am...so i didn't get to do my daily challenge.

This is another list. I do this everyday so its nothing new....but i'll list what i'm  grateful for now, for what i have...and then what i'm grateful for whats to come.
Now
-Jason..my world.
-Gabby-my princess
-My education
-My home
-My material objects
-Everything that fills my home including the everlasting love that I have.
-the passion Jason and I share.
-My family
-My friends. including Bonnie, Brandon, Kim, Teaka, Devan...the list goes on!
-The Job Jason has...he works his ass to the bone
-my car

Future
-My children.
-My Business
-My money
-My car
-My divorce being finalized
-my wonderful life....not that its not wonderful now but it'll be better later.
-other things i cannot write.

List Challenge....

I'I'm not going in any certain order here i'm just doing the list challenge what looks like it would be interesting to do or fun to do...then i'll do the rest. Tonight i'm doing two instead of one!

       Reasons why you love your significant other

   -He is always there for me

  -he listens

- -he gives good advice

- -he provides for me...even tho i don't like it sometimes.

  -he loves me!

  -he looks beyond my flaws

  -he supports me- emotionally and mentally

- -he is my opposite. this is sometimes good but sometimes bad as well...

  -he allows me to be me.

  -he wants to give me everything under the sun. (which can be bad, b/c he spoils me!)

- -we like the same things, movies, music etc.

  -he takes care of me when i'm sick...which is not the easiest thing to do.

   Things i love about him

  -his smile

  -his laugh

  -the looks he gives me..

  -the well....i can't say b/c i'm a lady, and i have class.

  -he lets me do whatever, whenever

  

.....theres more but i have to go! sorry everyone but i'm sure you get the idea.

Elements of an Ideal Year

Elements of an Ideal  Year

Well this is an easy one! For an Ideal year I’d like my divorce to be finalized. I would like Valentine’s day to just be simple. Time together with Jason is all I want.  All holidays I would like to spend around family. Maybe get pregnant this year…MAYBE. We will see. Get engaged (this will happen by 2012) and our date is set already! And the theme for our wedding is being knocked around…More time with Gabby! Add more things to our home that reminds us of our life together…can you believe I don’t have one photo of us printed out?!! And I’m a photographer!!! Spend more time with my friends, those that are here for me…not the ones that pretend to be. Keep getting good grades in school. That’s a must for an ideal year!  Maybe go to Florida and visit Jason’s family, I’d love to meet his sister. Hmmm idk what else could make my ideal year…I already have everything I wanted and so much more! 

I'm starting a blog project

Blog Project- I’m starting a blog project. It’ll consist of letters, lists, photos, and just plain blogs. I’m doing this to become more aware of what I really have in my life, what I should be appreciating more than anything.  Plus, I always like to improve myself; these projects should help me improve myself greatly. This blog has turned into a mess, if I may say so myself. I do not want to keep drama going, my life is better than anyone. I have the best thing in life. LOVE, true passionate love! And no one can take that away from me! I should not have to deal with a younger woman thinking that she has a better life b/c she is with the person that I discarded. I’m not addressing that UNLESS a project wants me too. Until then the drama stops here. I’m a grown woman and it should not matter who is with who or what they have…b/c I have it all right here in my own heaven.

First project- Things  I should have known 10 years ago.

Life-

-Be organized, and keep it that way!

-Believe in something,  stick to your daily bible teachings. PRAY.

-Keep an open mind

-Read more, and educate yourself more.

-pay attention in school, middle and high school are very important and crucial for your future.

-Take better care of your health and your body

-Make better friends who stick around for the hard times not just the good.

-THINK ABOUT YOUR FUTURE BEFORE ITS FACING YOU.               

-Find a good job and save money

-Be more independent-not dependent

-stick up for yourself.

-stick up for what is right and wrong

-speak your mind

-no huge tattoos that you might regret

-Don’t let anyone take advantage of you!

Relationships

-Everyone hurts you at least once, find someone that hurts your less often and makes up for all the bad.

-Wait for an AMAZING MAN.

-Family first, friends second, self-last

-Do not let anyone control you!

-Make better friends, that’ll be there for you during the tough times and will just be there for you

-be more patient and kind

-Show MORE love than anyone can receive.

Thanksgiving, Skating and a Random update...oh and PHOTOS!!!

Well, not much has changed since the last blog.
School is going great! My home has came together perfectly...there are a few things i want to do to it to finish it up but its almost there...then i'll post photos! (no photos of the outside, b/c i don't want anyone knowing where i live) unless your close to me.
Jason and i have been together for 7 months now! He bought a diamond ring! I didn't think i'd get married again, well with the love that Jason and I have is unique and incomparable...my relationship with Jason is unlike any relationship, I've ever been in. I'm actually scared to lose him! I'm scared that he'll wreck or some other tragedy, b/c all the great love stories end in tragedy.he hasn't purposed yet...but he will soon..i cannot wait to say yes to being with him forever...to growing old with him!! and him only! Our life together is amazing. And no matter what anyone says my life is better than anyone else's life. that to me feels right and true.

Here are a few photos from Thanksgiving Day

    ALL PHOTOS ABOVE ARE FROM THANKSGIVING 2011

it was great to be surrounded by family. and having my princess Gabby with us this year! 

Everyone says she passes as my own. and in fact my great aunt thought she was mine! i actually had to explain she's my step daughter.

A few days before Thanksgiving Jason took Gabby and I skating. it was fun, i fell a LOT but i had a great time with my little family....here are photos  from that day/night

Gabby's Small Skates

Daddy helping Gabby

Daddy and Gabby!

Gabby at the end of skating! she had so much fun despite falling all the time...Mommy (me) taught her how to skate without her walker...she was so happy that day. and exhausted that night

We all had so much fun having family time out side of the home is truly important. we were going to go to the Zoo and look at the animals and lights but it rained that night and so we found the skate place. 

I'm always behind the camera! thank god seeing me fall so much would have been funny yet embarrassing!

Mommy's Princess...her dad and i would ask her whose princess was she and she'd always point to me and say mommy's! I love this photo of her! its beautiful and simple! Its Jason and i's favorite photo...taken by me of course!