FINALLY!!!

I'M FINALLY DIVORCED!!! LAST NAME IS BACK TO HALE....AND NOW I CAN SAY WHATEVER I WANT ON MY BLOG!
no more news other than that..but from now on i'm going to be realer than real.
i dont have to hide my life anymore. or parts of it.

Livin' the WONDERFUL life!

So as all of you know Jason and I are over. He pushed me and i wasn't having it. Called the cops and he got what he deserved. Now he is trying to sleep with my so called best friend...whom is no longer a friend. plus he sleeps with her he'll get something. Just saying!

So I've known Travis Eppley since 2005.  I met him thru my boyfriend at the time. I look back now and think i had to go thru that relationship and every other relationship until i could be ready for Travis. We've been together  for less than a month. but since we've known each other forever I already am so in love with him I'd die without him. He does have full custody of his son. Gregory. Now Gmans birth mother is not in the picture. Never has been. So I'm his mommy now. he calls me mommy and my day just lights up. Gman is mommys little man.
I started a journal for Gregory so later on in his life he can read it and see what happened back then (now) and he'll see that Mommy loves him so much. I started one for Travis and I also. about the ups and downs in our relationship.

When Trav and I got together we said all in or nothing...b/c he had a son and if i was going to be with travis he was a package deal. He gave me what i always wanted. a FAMILY. and a LOVE NOT COMPARABLE TO ANYTHING ON THIS EARTH!

ok so i know some people had issues with Jasons daughter calling me mom, i know why b/c she already had a mom and i wasn't taken her place. but With Gregory its different he has never had a mother figure in his life. and i will be his mother for the rest of my life. even if Trav and i break up i'm getting visitation. b/c he is not going to put that boy in my life then rip him away.
I'm more in love with Travis than i've ever been with anyone in my entire life. No one is comparable to him.  I sometimes try to compare my exs to him and they just don't match up! at all. Travis is so much better.
and my life with him....well its amazing. We live together. We are happy to just be together. and have a family together.

My life couldn't get better.

Well heres the breaking news..my 8mth relationship is over!
He stole pills from me, He stole money, He broke my heart, he pushed me...he went to jail, he cannot contact me, he has contacted me...he picked his stuff up, he tried to play with my heart, the end.
AND MY DIVORCE WILL BE FINALIZED IN LESS THAN 30 DAYS!
not hard to explain. And i really do not need to  go into details. But its all over with now. Just a couple court dates then its all over.

I got a new man now...shocker....I've known him since 2005, met thru an ex boyfriend and kept in touch via FB
I saw him on POF and sent him a message on FB...he called me and now here we are living together...his son lives with us at all times. He doesn't have a mother (long story and its not my story to tell) But now i'm his mommy..I love my life now. I love how everything is and i wouldnt change it...we live together :) so i wake up next to him every morning hearing mommy being yelled at by little man.
I just wouldn't changed anything in my life. i have a great man and a great son. its just a perfect life.
Travis is 30 so he is much more mature than all these other guys. He has to take care of his son 24/7 without receiving child support. he is a great man. couldn't ask for someone better!
i gtg now Gregory is home and he has been gone all day b/c my mom took him and now that we have him back mommy is going to spend time with the little man!