FYI

It does say in that new article that NO ONE HAS BEEN CHARGED!
and no one has.
so get ur facts straight!
And things are good with me! My life is so  damn good right now!
and i'm happy for once! you cant make me believe that your happy when YOU TOLD ME that he hits you.
and that he cheats on  you...and everything else you've said to me! Cheater and a beater...thats good for your kid(s) right?
FYI crystal is not a cousin! shes my brothers girlfriend you idiot!
Now i have a life to get back to...

ONE YEAR!

Its been one year since Randy and I split up. Thursday (my birthday) It'll be a year since i left him. If that makes sense to anyone! haha
So it seems like i've came a long way this past year. I went from a complete mess to a beautiful confident woman, thats not afraid of anything lately. I'm going to college to better myself and to be able to have a successful business. My photography work has been used for newscasts, and multiple people have my work on their walls at home. I couldn't be happier when it comes to that. As for relationships with me, I knew for the past year that i couldn't be with anyone b/c i needed to heal. I've healed. No i'm not with anyone right now. But i'm ok with that b/c i haven't been looking. I rather get a divorce before I plan on getting involved with anyone.  Oh and this past year I've found GOD. Which he has saved me from a lot. and i do mean A LOT. I've made new friends, and reconnected with old ones...and i've even become close to some that I met b/c of my husband. So I'm actually thankful that i was married to Randy b/c i would have never of met Amanda and we wouldn't be friends today!

And since I've talked to miss Jennifer I know that he is still the same. He is not taking care of his responsibilities, has not learned anything from our mess of a marriage, and he is abusive still...and this is coming from no other than his girlfriend herself! But he is with her, CHEATING on her, and is stuck with her because she is pregnant with his baby. I feel sorry for the both of them. I mean she is stuck with him, and I can see their relationship becoming what ours was. And I know how he is, he isn't ready to have the big responsibility of having a child, and to have to take care of TWO....yeah good luck sweetheart.

I guess what i'm getting at with all of this...IS....I AM SO MUCH BETTER WITHOUT MY HUSBAND!
MY LIFE IS BETTER-I AM BETTER...AND I DO NOT NEED ANYONE TO "COMPLETE" ME.

 Theres a song that got me thru all of this and its so true...its called Shes going to make it by Garth Brooks.
Listen to it...its a good song.

Things are going great for me!

Well the last few days I have been getting credit for my photography on the local news.
Whiz news has used my photos for their stories! This is a great feat at least for me it is.
Its nice to know my work is so good that it can be recognized on the news.
Photo credits go to Tarasha Hale Lowe...that means so much to me!
They say if i have anymore photos for any stories around perry county then i can send them in and they'll use them!
I'm so happy! I'm finally getting my work out there...and a completed a "wish" on my bucket list.
here is the link
Fire destroys Perry County School house

I have more photos...i'll post later...but i have to get some sleep class in the AM

So i have to just say...

Ok so i have to tell this to everyone and anyone...
Jennifer has been talking to me.
She wants me to try to get Randy in trouble for leaving her while shes pregnant.
She has told me a hell of a lot of information.
And i can even prove this....I'm sure if you click on the images you can make them bigger!
Btw there is a lot more where this came from! I would be happy to show anyone more...just ask..

Randy sweetheart,
Do you really want to be with a girl that will do this to you when things get hard?
I mean teaming up with his ex wife...thats got to be bad. sucks to be you tho i know a lot of things now! and hun if u comment dont be afraid to use a name that i know u by! its not like i'll tell the cops...

Everything happens for a reason

Ever heard the saying Everything Happens for a reason?

Well I held onto that saying for so long from Nov. 5, 2008 when i lost my first child, until today. I'll always believe that its completely true. 

 Once a cheater always a cheater...right? That saying rings true for my estranged husband. He still needs craigslist to get laid....

AND there is a lot of people telling me that him and his girlfriend are not together anymore...

Best thing for her to do is say good riddance to him! A cheater and a beater...I would never ever want a man like that again. ever. 

Its funny how one day things can feel so wrong and messed up then you see someone elses situation and actually feel sorry for them. even tho i remember warning her forever ago about him. reason why it lasted so long....he was deployed. With my husband i have learned that he can be the best man on earth while you chat online with him....but face to face he is so unappealing and has nothing to say. 

As for people commenting on my blog and telling me all this why? and WHO ARE YOU? 

I hope its not b/c someone thinks that I want my husband back. B/c honestly I loved the man i fell in love with not the man he is today. 

As for some comments saying i hate this girl...I don't. I could never hate anyone...wait I can...I hate Randy Lee Lowe. and thats two years of abuse and everything else he put me through talking. But she believed his lies, and everything else. Yeah she has bashed me a lot but i've said some pretty mean things too. But In my defense I'd like to say that I always defend myself once someone starts it i have to end it. and stick up for myself. 

As for all of you that are telling me they are over...why tell me? I mean i appreciate everyones input and comments and by all means go ahead and say whatever you want, but there has to be a reason why your telling me all of this

Oh and i heard that Randy has been reading my blog- so Hello Bunches! How's my husband doing? have you gotten an STD yet? you might want to watch the craigslist ads i heard girls that need an ad to get men are crazy...and when are you going to start the whole divorce process again? I really would like to be free of you! i mean i pretty much am free i just need a divorce so i can go on with my life...and honey i honestly dont care whose bed your in....or any of that shit. I just want my last name to be HALE. and for it not to be a sin to date again...SO hows things going? enjoying your single days while you have money?! i mean getting out of the navy your not going to have much money to do things i mean the navy pays your rent gives u an allowance for food and all of that...you wont have that money when u get out. as for me sweetheart. well i'm doing wonderful! I'm going to school....I'm doing what i love. I capture the world thru my lens and i absolutely love it. I have some amazing friends! and family! I'm only really missing one thing...I don't have a boyfriend or a "spouse" but thats completely okay with me! at least for now, you see i'm not ready to date again. I'm really sorry to hear about your aunt! she was a amazing woman. but i am glad her suffering is over. i mean its not much of a life if its a daily battle. I was going to go to her funeral but i didn't see any obituary for her or anything...and then i thought well i probably wouldn't be wanted there anyways! But i do miss her terribly! well, i got to go...i do have a life to get back to. P.S. Do not comment on my blog I don't want to hear anything you have to say. thank you!